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Tuesday, November 22, 2005

Something real I saw after long time

This is my friends wedding which is full of reality:

“Marriage is a triumph of imagination over intelligence”
- Every Married Couple


Now that 28 years have rolled by my intelligence is at all time low

I decided to marry without realizing where it leads to
Suddenly there is a spate of happenings…
The phone bills shot up...
My free time is a thing of past…
And I am feeling good about it.
Any way, she is :GURL: joining me for a dream life together.
You see it needs :GURL: to manage me.


I will be standing along with her from 1900hrs to 2100hrs on 26th November (Saturday) 2005, and next day would be sitting along with her from 0830hrs to 1000hrs. Since Bangalore is lashed by heavy rains, sitting and standing will be @ “Vasavi Mahal”, Sri Kanyakaparameshwari Temple Complex,8th cross, Malleswaram, Bangalore-560 003.

If you happen to passby this place just hop in, take a profile snap of yours along with us. :D

“The secret of a happy marriage is still a secret”
I swear I will let you know when I find it.

Yours
:GUY:

|| Hash Gowda, 10:10 PM || link || Comments... ||

Saturday, November 12, 2005

Quest to Conquer mortality

Sometime I feel, why dearer/nearer ones have to die. I never felt the real effect of a person's death when I was a kid. In my childhood on my way to my school, I used to walk thru some streets were I used to see families mourning for the dead ppl. I used to think, why they have to cry for these things.
I realised the real loss, when I lost my father. I cried,cried n cried and also asked GOD can u take me n give back my father, 'cos my family needs him. Lots of wishes/bargains were done. But got no reply. From then on, I started feeling for the families who have lost somebody.
I recently joined a company, there from the day one, I was befriended by one Northy guy who joined 3days b4 me. We had become so very good frends. If we're spotted alone in the campus, ppl started question abt wat happened 2 the other guy. He is fun loving, smart worker and also loooot talented. We like competing with each other in work.
Diwali came by he went 2 his hometown. Returned this tuesday. Everything was going fine.
On Friday I went to office n as I rushed out of the lift. he jumped into it n went out after givin me a smile.
Later he came back n told that he wants 2 go to hometown today itself. I questioned him, he said "his mom is in critical condition, has got a brain haemorrhage. His brother had just called him, she is in hospital from past 2days". He booked his air tickets. whole while he was tensed, I wanted 2 talk 2 him, console him, wat 2 say " I didnot know". Evening he left. I wanted 2 call him, then I realised his mobile might not b in roaming.
The thunderbolts struck me when his message reached me around 11pm, that his MOM PASSED AWAY. I called him immediately, he said "she was gone b4 I reached here".
I don't know whether he was crying @ that moment. But I was.I had no words, just said "finish up all the rituals, I will pass the news 2 PM".
I know how it feels when we loss somebody very near n dear.
This is 3rd incident in my life including my father n my frends parents, which has caused gr8 sorry in my life.
|| Hash Gowda, 4:59 AM || link || Comments... ||